by Sophie Beart, Montessori Expert, Babbu

How to Make Nappy Changing a Fun and Positive Experience for Your Baby


At Peachies, we believe in empowering parents with expert advice to navigate this wild journey that is raising children. 


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That’s why we’ve teamed up with Babbu - the online learning platform designed to support, reassure and empower parents and their children in the first critical few years - to cover some of the most chaotic aspects of childcare. Nappy changes fit that bill perfectly. Sophie, a Montessori expert and Head of Partnerships at Babbu, shares top tips for transforming nappy changes into fun and positive bonding moments between parents and child. Take it away, Sophie.

Nappy changing can be a time-consuming and messy task, but it can also be a great opportunity to support your little one’s personal and emotional development by encouraging skills related to independence and self-care. 

By giving your little one time and some control over the process, you can help them feel more confident and capable, which can have a positive impact on their self-esteem. 

Here are some tips for supporting your little one’s independence and self-care when nappy changing:

  • Start early. You can start giving your little one some control over the nappy changing process from a very young age. Even if they're not able to do much at first, they'll still benefit from being involved!
  • Use age-appropriate language. As your little one gets older, start using age-appropriate language to describe what you're doing. This will help them understand what's happening and feel more involved.
  • Give them choices. When possible, give your little one choices about the nappy changing process. For example, you could ask them if they want to sit up or lie down.
  • Let them help. As your little one gets older, they'll be able to do more to help with the nappy changing process. Let them help you take off their clothes, put on a new nappy, and wipe themselves clean.
  • Be patient and positive. It's important to be patient and positive when your baby is learning to change their own nappy. It may take some time for them to get the hang of it, but with your support, they'll eventually be able to do it themselves.


Here are some of the benefits of supporting your baby's independence and self-care when nappy changing:

  • Increased self-esteem. When your baby feels like they have some control over their nappy changing, they'll feel more confident and capable. This can boost their self-esteem and help them feel good about themselves.
  • Improved personal and social skills. Learning to change their own nappy can help your baby develop important personal and social skills. For example, they'll learn how to follow instructions, take turns, and cooperate with others.
  • Enhanced emotional development. Nappy changing can be a stressful experience for babies, but by giving them some control over the process, you can help them feel more in control and less stressed. This can help them develop healthy emotional coping mechanisms.


Overall, supporting your baby's independence and self-care when nappy changing can have a number of positive benefits for their overall development. By taking the time to involve your baby in the process and be patient and positive, you can help them develop the skills and confidence they need to be independent and self-reliant.

Here are some additional tips for supporting your baby's independence and self-care when nappy changing:

  • Make it a fun experience. Play games, sing songs, or read stories during nappy changing time. This will help your baby associate the experience with positive things.
  • Use positive reinforcement. When your baby helps with nappy changing, be sure to praise them and let them know how proud you are of them. This will encourage them to continue helping in the future.
  • Be patient. It may take some time for your baby to learn how to change their own nappy. Don't get frustrated if they don't get it right away. Just keep practising and being patient, and they'll eventually get the hang of it.


With your support, your baby can learn to change their own nappy and become more independent and self-reliant. This is an important milestone in their development, and it's one that you can help them achieve.

About Babbu: 

Babbu is an online learning platform designed to support, reassure and empower parents and their children in the first critical few years. We have a simple but ambitious vision: a world in which no child is left behind. We provide tailored educational activities and content to support parents at home, with over 40 hours’ of bite-sized, engaging, videos, podcasts, blogs, activities, and songs. Over 1,000 fun, personalised activities delivered weekly for you and your little one, plus enjoy Montessori, Forest School and Mindfulness adventures each week!

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